I won't tell if you don't tell.
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Question: If you are in a committed relationship do you believe that what your mate don't know won't hurt?
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Created By: Francine
Total Votes: 16
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Francine wrote on Wednesday, March 12, 2008 at 02:17 PM

I don't believe in that saying because what i didn't know did hurt me.  I feel like this, if i agreed to be in an open relationship then we can go and do as we please.  Since he chose to have his cake and eat it too.  I had to let him go. 

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C r a i g wrote on Wednesday, March 12, 2008 at 02:24 PM

You must be honest always!

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chuckie wrote on Wednesday, March 12, 2008 at 02:32 PM

ONE WORD......KARMA

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chuckie wrote on Wednesday, March 12, 2008 at 02:36 PM

PLUS MAYBE THIS IS WHY I AM STILL SINGLE....I WANT THE PERSON I AM WITH TO BE MY BEST FRIEND....YOU KNOW THE THINGS YOU TELL YOUR FRIENDS...GOOD OR BAD?.....IT IS THE WAY YOU LAY IT ON THE TABLE.....
YOU WOULD BE SURPRISED WHAT THE REWARD IS FOR BEING HONEST.........LOVE IS MAGIC......


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Lizette wrote on Wednesday, March 12, 2008 at 05:03 PM

You should treat your dearest one, as you want to be treated yourself.......

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SteveK wrote on Wednesday, March 12, 2008 at 06:11 PM

I read the question as someone cheating on you....I have been on that side before......It's not pretty, it hurts, and would not wish that feeling on anyone...

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Robert wrote on Wednesday, March 12, 2008 at 08:30 PM

i want to tell my love one as much as i can. now does that mean that i open up about all the women i have had sex with. how far do i take this honesty. how about medical history, how about monetary history. how far do we take our history with our loved one. past girlfriend. wonder if you only went out on one date, do you put a bullzeye on them. there is allot of questions.
now once you are married from that point on all is up front. you hide nothing. then once you start to have secrets you are deciding to move on to your next marriage.

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hui wrote on Thursday, March 13, 2008 at 03:00 AM

It's better to tell your mate from the beginning than to tell him later or he'll know from other sources, so you must be honest with your mate as well as with other people?

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revolt1789 wrote on Thursday, March 13, 2008 at 07:09 PM

"The grief is never worth the gravy" I had a friend who was having an affair outside his marriage. I personally believe people sleeping around give off a certain vibe and a partner will catch on. My friend would leave town for a few days and return a day early to see the mistress. He was called by his wife on the mistress's "Land-Line". He had no explanation whatsoever. I never judge and people know i love everyone, but as Chuckie proclaimed, Karma will catch up. If you re that unhappy, break up. Maybe Eliot Spitzer should have read this poll..lol.
Cheers to all.
Naldo

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