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Question: Can you be honest with yourself?
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Are you as honest with your remarks to friends as you want them to be with you
Can you take it when someone disagree's with you
How do really see yourself
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Created By: Blackcattt
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Jaydub wrote on Monday, July 07, 2008 at 12:59 PM

Jaydub # one

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zero2sixty wrote on Monday, July 07, 2008 at 01:32 PM

Aww...Jay...I don't think you are being honest with yourself dude...hahaha

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Blackcattt wrote on Tuesday, July 08, 2008 at 03:23 PM

zero2sixty wrote
Aww...Jay...I don't think you are being honest with yourself dude...hahaha

Foot in mouth lol

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Peg wrote on Wednesday, July 09, 2008 at 07:50 PM

zero2sixty wrote
Aww...Jay...I don't think you are being honest with yourself dude...hahaha

NOW ZERO R U SURE JAY CAN HANDLE UR HONESTY??? LOL

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Kirsten wrote on Monday, July 07, 2008 at 02:00 PM

hmmmmm

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Blackcattt wrote on Tuesday, July 08, 2008 at 03:22 PM

Kirsten wrote
hmmmmm

Why hmm lol

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zero2sixty wrote on Tuesday, July 08, 2008 at 03:26 PM

Blackcattt wrote
Why hmm lol

Hey Blackcatt...you must have been bad...or maybe just hiding...haha...just being honest...haha

i think hmmmmm translates from Norweigan as "I have to think about this one"...hehe

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Blackcattt wrote on Tuesday, July 08, 2008 at 04:32 PM

zero2sixty wrote
Hey Blackcatt...you must have been bad...or maybe just hiding...haha...just being honest...haha

i think hmmmmm translates from Norweigan as "I have to think about this one"...hehe

hey me bad never lol

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Sonie wrote on Monday, July 07, 2008 at 06:10 PM

Be honest. That is the way I was raised...do unto others.....

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Blackcattt wrote on Tuesday, July 08, 2008 at 03:21 PM

Sonie wrote
Be honest. That is the way I was raised...do unto others.....

Hey there....I agree...I would rather be treated the same way as I would treat others...I would not do myself a wrong...so I do not accept the same back...

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Sonie wrote on Tuesday, July 08, 2008 at 10:24 PM

Blackcattt wrote
Hey there....I agree...I would rather be treated the same way as I would treat others...I would not do myself a wrong...so I do not accept the same back...

If more people believed that way there would not be war. I hate war and have to many young male family members to worry over if they have to go fight. Two are already over there. I hate it.

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LAL38 wrote on Monday, July 07, 2008 at 06:22 PM

With Friends?

Yes always.

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Blackcattt wrote on Tuesday, July 08, 2008 at 03:22 PM

LAL38 wrote
With Friends?

Yes always.

hey there

Why with just friends...Just an enquiry...Laughing

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~ THE 1 AND ... wrote on Monday, July 07, 2008 at 07:54 PM

WELL ALL Y'ALL SHOULD KNOW ME WELL ENOUGH BY NOW  LMAO
NO HOLDS BAR!! I LET EM RIP!  LOL

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hunnybear wrote on Monday, July 07, 2008 at 08:48 PM

oh yes honest! you can soften the blow tho!
 I know what I look like in a mirror too.... you gotta accentuate the positive and HIDE the negetive!!! lol

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~ THE 1 AND ... wrote on Monday, July 07, 2008 at 11:13 PM

hunnybear wrote
oh yes honest! you can soften the blow tho!
 I know what I look like in a mirror too.... you gotta accentuate the positive and HIDE the negetive!!! lol

OH I HAVE TO HIDE THE NEGATIVE..FOR SURE!!  ..WHY IS IT THAT DOC COULDNT HAVE GIVEN ME A TUMMY TUCK AFTER THAT C-SECTION...I HAVE A PERMENT POOCH NOW  .....Tongue out

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Blackcattt wrote on Tuesday, July 08, 2008 at 03:09 PM

~ THE 1 AND ... wrote
OH I HAVE TO HIDE THE NEGATIVE..FOR SURE!!  ..WHY IS IT THAT DOC COULDNT HAVE GIVEN ME A TUMMY TUCK AFTER THAT C-SECTION...I HAVE A PERMENT POOCH NOW  .....Tongue out

Love the reply hahaha I have asked the same question myself about my doc...you just cant get the right ones these days can u haha....

I hate it when someone isnt up front n holds back...as how am i to learn by any mistakes i have made if nothing has been said to me in the first place....So I rather friends or whom would be very up front with me as I would be to them....So i agree with you...

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Thomas wrote on Tuesday, July 08, 2008 at 03:34 AM

I'm pushing 64 and I've been in AA for over 21 years I'm used to being disagreed with and I can take it and look at more than one side of any solution.

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Blackcattt wrote on Tuesday, July 08, 2008 at 03:12 PM

Thomas wrote
I'm pushing 64 and I've been in AA for over 21 years I'm used to being disagreed with and I can take it and look at more than one side of any solution.

Wow My Great Uncle use to be in the AA when they first started many moons ago...I bet you have been in the middle of sometimes hey?...21 years wow i would love to hear some stories of your AA days and compare them to My Great Uncles...

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zero2sixty wrote on Tuesday, July 08, 2008 at 08:47 AM

well...really...whoever said honesty is the best policy was a little off the mark...in the real world, how many times have you had to bite your tongue and not said what you really felt?? I mean...sometimes I admire a person that has the almost childlike quality to them and lets their expression out honestly even if it is not what the person wanted to hear...however if we did this as a matter of course...there would be a lot more lonely people in this world than there are now...

like the movie Liar Liar...some funny s hit but it would not make your popularity ranking go through the roof...

honesty should therefore be a relative term and not an absolute...

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Kirsten wrote on Tuesday, July 08, 2008 at 09:09 AM

i have started to be more honest to myself the last year.... :-)

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Blackcattt wrote on Tuesday, July 08, 2008 at 03:10 PM

Kirsten wrote
i have started to be more honest to myself the last year.... :-)

I bet you feel alot better for it too...and have you noticed any change from other people towards you...since you have been more honest?

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Kirsten wrote on Tuesday, July 08, 2008 at 03:54 PM

I have always been very honest towards other people... The only change is that I finally (as all of my friends here already know) admitted to myself that I am gay... And I have it just wonderful:-)


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Blackcattt wrote on Tuesday, July 08, 2008 at 04:28 PM

Kirsten wrote
I have always been very honest towards other people... The only change is that I finally (as all of my friends here already know) admitted to myself that I am gay... And I have it just wonderful:-)

Well thats what is more important than anything else...or words of others that know nothing about you.... Good to hear that its all good...and so it should be too Laughing... I doubt it was the fact that you had to admit it to yourself...as that I am sure was clear from within you...Its more of the case of how others would see you or think of you...That is what can stop us from being truly ourselves...n hold back from it...which means you are not being honest with yourself or others...You have taken that step to being honest with yourself...so now free to finally be YOU...woopwoop I am really truly happy for you...

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Blackcattt wrote on Tuesday, July 08, 2008 at 03:18 PM

zero2sixty wrote
well...really...whoever said honesty is the best policy was a little off the mark...in the real world, how many times have you had to bite your tongue and not said what you really felt?? I mean...sometimes I admire a person that has the almost childlike quality to them and lets their expression out honestly even if it is not what the person wanted to hear...however if we did this as a matter of course...there would be a lot more lonely people in this world than there are now...

like the movie Liar Liar...some funny s hit but it would not make your popularity ranking go through the roof...

honesty should therefore be a relative term and not an absolute...

hey there...

There are bound to be times when it is best to say nothing at tall...incase of making matters worse....However if people want the truth, then truth should be there already....I always so to those that ask...'Now would you like me to be honest and tell you how it really is...or to build up ears to what you want to hear...which of course will be untrue...?'

If I wearing something that really is just plain awful and makes me look like a right fool...But I cannot see this for myself...I would hope that those around me would be honest enough to say...'omg what on earth do you like?'....That goes with everything....I am not concerned about protecting someone's feelings when it is clear that something is not right...so i then correct or advice otherwise...If what ever is taken either the correctness or the advice is neither here or there....but the fact that a truth and honesty has occured...To me that means everything...
I agree to a point...But I shall say anything just to please...or to soften one's own ego....

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kate86 wrote on Tuesday, July 08, 2008 at 06:00 PM

me i can't say mean things to people, i prefer to shut up.that's why i suck at arguing:)

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Kirsten wrote on Tuesday, July 08, 2008 at 06:06 PM

kate86 wrote
me i can't say mean things to people, i prefer to shut up.that's why i suck at arguing:)

you can't??? well... I am not so sure about that, my polish "friend".....

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kate86 wrote on Tuesday, July 08, 2008 at 06:11 PM

Kirsten wrote
you can't??? well... I am not so sure about that, my polish "friend".....

oh rrrrrrreally...

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Kirsten wrote on Tuesday, July 08, 2008 at 06:15 PM

yes......

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kate86 wrote on Tuesday, July 08, 2008 at 06:16 PM

Kirsten wrote
yes......

no! haha

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hui wrote on Wednesday, July 09, 2008 at 03:33 AM

kate86 wrote
no! haha

It's good not to argue with people who don't listen & who're hopeless. I would rather be treated the same way as I would treat others.

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Kirsten wrote on Wednesday, July 09, 2008 at 03:46 AM

hehe, Hui.... Kate and I never agree.... That's why we are good friends, I think...

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Kent A wrote on Wednesday, July 09, 2008 at 02:33 PM

Kirsten wrote
hehe, Hui.... Kate and I never agree.... That's why we are good friends, I think...

Hey Kirsten,, I can tell by the look on Kate's face that you and her been tangling again!Hahaha!YellLaughing

I didn't see yur means streak B4, but what do I know?  Heehe! UndecidedLaughing

Hy hui! ...Good to see you again!CoolSmile

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kate86 wrote on Wednesday, July 09, 2008 at 07:33 PM

Kent A wrote