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October 29, 2007 - Monday
THANK YOU
Category:  Romance And Relationship
I was just sending out a message to a friend and mentioned this , so I thought yep I should. Not like he will ever see it but here it goes:

To My Ex:

Thank you for 3 beautiful kids

Thank you for lying

Thank you for cheating

Thank you for sleepless nights

Thank you for the roller coaster ride of our marriage

Thank you for the Divorce.

From you I learned the signs of cheating, deceit and manipulation.

From you I learned to be strong, self sufficient, resilient .

From your depature I learned I AM WORTH IT !

Thank you
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September 21, 2007 - Friday
The Jena 6
Category:  News And Politics
Ok, i will admit I am playing catch up on this news. Over the last couple of days I have read the articles and watched some news coverage and I am outraged that this can still happen. We always sit back and complain and shake our heads in disbelief when a tragedy like this happens. What we need to do is be honest about what is going on.  Many schools in this country have metal detectors for our kids to pass through and we have supposedly adopted ZERO TOLERANCE to make the schools safe. Yet when in my opinion a blatant Hate Crime is committed and our school boards make it out to be nothing more than a childish prank , we leave our children open to mounting tension and anger by the kids who are being harassed.  I don't see how any person in their right mind who said that the hanging of nooses on a tree is a childish prank.  That is not childish nor a prank ( especially for a high school student) . Sure every one of these incidents are separate issues and should be dealt with that way. Yet anyone can clearly see how one bad decision has lead to this domino reaction. One bad decision from the school board set in motion this chain reaction, where children were hurt and lives changed forever; and we wonder why we have incidents like Columbine  or now even the Jena 6 in Louisiana.  I realize that each state and each school district has the authority to deal with these matters . It shouldn't differ from school board to school board or state to state it should be the same throughout this country.if you don't know the story here are some-of the highlights :


At a high school assembly on Aug. 30, 2006, a black freshman asked the assistant principal whether African-Americans could sit under a tree that had traditionally been used only by whites.

The school official replied, "You can sit anywhere you want."

The next morning, students arrived at classes to find the nooses -- two black, one gold, the official school colours. After learning three white students were responsible, Scott Windham, the principal, recommended they be expelled for the year.

A school board committee ruled the incident was a prank without racial overtones and reduced the punishment to an in-school suspension.

Federal prosecutors refused to investigate the incident as a possible hate crime.



After black students held a protest under the "whites only" tree a few days later, Reed Walters, the district attorney for La Salle parish, allegedly warned he could make their lives "disappear with the stroke of a pen" if they continued to disrupt the school.

The situation quickly unravelled.

On Nov. 30, 2006, an unknown arsonist set fire to the school's academic wing.

Two days later, a black student attending a mostly white party at the Fair Barn, a local dance hall, claims he was severely beaten by a group of white teens. The following day, a white man allegedly pointed a pump-action shotgun at another group of black teenagers in a gas station parking lot.

Police charged a 22-year-old white man with simple battery in the Fair Barn assault. The alleged gun-wielding man faced no charges.

The final incident occurred on Dec. 4, when prosecutors say a group of black students attacked a white teenager, Justin Barker, without provocation.

The black teenagers contend he had taunted an African-American student who had been beaten in an earlier attack by whites.

The injuries inflicted on Mr. Barker were ugly, but not life-threatening.

He was knocked unconscious and was repeatedly kicked in the head. He spent three hours in a hospital emergency room and attended a social event that evening. They were charged with attempted murder.

Can they be related to the incident of the nooses.. i don't think that  it helped any racial tension that may have existed in the town or the school.  Its all a shame , its sad , and we really need to look at how to make sure this doesn't happen again.

I think that there should be zero tolerance at any level for a hate crime , we should never look the other way or try to find a reason to excuse it.  We have to remember that doing nothing is just the same as condoning it. Burring our head in the sand doesn't make it go away. Problems never go away, they get worse if not dealt with. At least that it was I have learned in life.

Thanks for reading.

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July 24, 2007 - Tuesday
feeling blah
Category:  Life

just feeling blah about everything. Is it to much to ask for to just be happy . I mean really?? I am not asking for a million dollars or world peace just to be happy. I know that some decisions that I have made have lead to  disappointment. I dont blame others for mistakes I have made.  .  Ya know I am a good person, I love my kids and do the best I can for them, I have been told I am great kisser( among other things).. I like and enjoy taking care of people that I love.  I do my best not to judge people , I am not vengeful and I try not to hold a grudge as it has always just made me more miserable.  I used to comfortable in my own skin .. not lately . My job is boring and mindless 90% of the time and I continue to look, My love life .. oh yeah what love life.. my kids they actually make me smile , i did that right at least ! My house .. needs to reflect me more than it does.  Time for a change I guess, try to put the sparkle back in my eyes, energy back in my step, to look in the mirror and think I look good. Not see all the things I want to change. 

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July 18, 2007 - Wednesday
The Road to Recovery
Category:  Romance And Relationship
To those who have been wondering what was up

It has been a very difficult month so far to say the least. I have battled with emotions that I thought would never surface again. I have been on the roller coaster ride of life that gave me enough highs and fast drops to last me the rest of my life. As a divorced woman and mother I don't know if it is harder to let someone in your life again then any-other time in our life. When we do we must have felt a significant sense of trust to not only let someone in our life but the life of our children. Then as the months pass by this kind gentle soul evolves into a person we despise. Our heart breaks and yearns over what we have lost and desperately we look for that glimmer of hope this is only temporary. We notice more and more it isn't and that we have been chasing dreams and illusions. Now we notice that the small stuff has become mountains. Frustration begins to take over a once rational person anger begins to take hold of a once kind gentle heart. Finally at wits end you do the unthinkable you say ENOUGH, they are gone, you miss them, you remember the how it was, you remember that you once felt so loved and you begin to realize that love is still there only they can’t control this behavior they need help. They call you ask you to help them, you agree. You told them once you would be there for them, you would help them. You keep your word. They are now on the road to recovery and you realize so are you. You are recovering from a lost love, lost hopes and dreams. That the hurt and pain needs to heal you have learned you have grown; another life lesson well learned. Wait it can not be that simple, oh my friend it isn’t. They have asked you to be there in the end. You can not make that promise you do not know, the tears come again and flashbacks of happier days remind you why you are helping them. You want to tell them yes, but the words do not come out.  Instead you give them bread crumbs, I will write, I will come see you, the offer of a true friend is what you extend. You see the desperation in their eyes as your heart and eyes fill with sadness, they hug you and if that moment could be frozen in time everything would be fine. For in that moment you have never felt more needed or more loved. It takes all your strength to pull away as you must. The question that could only be answered over time... what if... the risk of taking that leap of faith again ... what if...
 
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July 12, 2007 - Thursday
insecurity?
Category:  Romance And Relationship

is there a man out there that isn't insecure ?? If so please step forward.  To all the moms out there reading this and you have an only child that is a boy.. please think of the women in his life that one day will have to deal with his childish behaviour as an adult.  I'm not your mother , and NO i don't have to wait on  you hand and foot and NO i don't have to make you the center of EVERYTHING I DO. This doesn't mean I don't love or care for you, it just means that I am an Independent Woman, who does not need a man in her life to be complete. It only means that I have respect for myself as a human being not to be treated like crap by a man.  Don't get me wrong I am a mother of two boys and i do wait on them hand and foot , but they also know that as soon as they start demanding , they lose.  Don't be insecure if a woman wants to keep something secret or just hers. Doesn't mean she is cheating or lying, everything doesnt have to be out there or open to  you. Everyone is entitled to their privacy or something of their own. If she is lying and cheating it comes out in the end. If she has done things only a person who loves and cares for you would do , why question it. Is it control you want over her that you need to know everything, what are you afraid of??

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June 28, 2007 - Thursday
a new begining
Category:  Life
Today after sitting in the doctors office for an hour and leaving with a handful of paperwork, prescriptions, samples, pamphlets, lab work request, and slips for the next two appointments, I must say I became overwhelmed. I guess we just dont always think that we can let things get to that point. I am sitting here now trying to figure out when did this happen, when did i let it get this bad, what signs didnt I pay attention to . I have to change things, I have to put myself first, its a big adjustment for me and a bigger one for the people in my life. They know have to take a back seat. They can do what the want, carry on how they want, I have to worry about me.
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June 7, 2007 - Thursday
lessons
Category:  Life
You would that I am smart enough to not make the stupid ass mistakes that i made.  Let me just say that there is no way I will repeat this one!   Oh well all water under the bridge, and next time I wont be so easily swayed.
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