is there a man out there that isn't insecure ?? If so please step forward.  To all the moms out there reading this and you have an only child that is a boy.. please think of the women in his life that one day will have to deal with his childish behaviour as an adult.  I'm not your mother , and NO i don't have to wait on  you hand and foot and NO i don't have to make you the center of EVERYTHING I DO. This doesn't mean I don't love or care for you, it just means that I am an Independent Woman, who does not need a man in her life to be complete. It only means that I have respect for myself as a human being not to be treated like crap by a man.  Don't get me wrong I am a mother of two boys and i do wait on them hand and foot , but they also know that as soon as they start demanding , they lose.  Don't be insecure if a woman wants to keep something secret or just hers. Doesn't mean she is cheating or lying, everything doesnt have to be out there or open to  you. Everyone is entitled to their privacy or something of their own. If she is lying and cheating it comes out in the end. If she has done things only a person who loves and cares for you would do , why question it. Is it control you want over her that you need to know everything, what are you afraid of??