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WHAT IS LOVE?????

February 19, 2007 - Monday
11:15 PM | WHAT IS LOVE?????
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When you love someone you care about them, you do what you can for them, you always make sure they are in good health  and they have all the things they need mentally, physically..

You provide and protect them in every way you no how..

But really what do you think love really is?
 
I would think love is loving yourself first... for if you don't love you and care about yourself,

 how can you love someone else...
 
WHAT DO YOU THINK LOVE IS...?
 

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Posted: 02/24/07 07:28 PM
you know love can be tricky.. it really depends on how are you loving that person.. and how much you love them.. love is honoring there wishes, doing what you can to help them, listening to them when they talk, comforting them when they need you to, giving them hugs even when they don't need it, rubbing there feet after they have had a hard day of work, getting out of your bed and cooking for them when they come in at 2:00 am and you even don't know why they was out so late.. lol.. etc.. you know what i am talking about...  
1.1
Posted: 05/14/07 09:27 AM
love for me is loving myself and my relationship with God when those are in line i have much love for anyone in my life, i have more than enough to share with the rest of the world. my experience has taught me that it first start within me, when i love myself first, i can give love for regardless how the other person acts my love for myself shields me from nonsense, it doesn't even come my way, cause i am vibrating on such a Master Love lord level i only attract the same. I cook clean give massages, drive when she is tired cause i love to do that for me lol lol o yeah "love is"
1.2
Posted: 05/22/07 06:23 PM

Brian you could not have said it better then i could have explained it.. you are so right dear.. GOD is love.. that is what we all know and if you don't love yourself you can not love anyone else.. we can't love with out loving you first.. thank you for those words into which we all need to hear may god bless you and keep in under his wings...
vetta

1.3
Posted: 06/20/08 11:05 AM
you know love can be tricky.. it really depends on how are you loving that person.. and how much you love them.. love is honoring there wishes, doing what you can to help them, listening to them when they talk, comforting them when they need you to, giving them hugs even when they don't need it, rubbing there feet after they have had a hard day of work, getting out of your bed and cooking for them when they come in at 2:00 am and you even don't know why they was out so late.. lol.. etc.. you know what i am talking about...   
test
1.4
Posted: 01/10/09 05:53 AM
you know love can be tricky.. it really depends on how are you loving that person.. and how much you love them.. love is honoring there wishes, doing what you can to help them, listening to them when they talk, comforting them when they need you to, giving them hugs even when they don't need it, rubbing there feet after they have had a hard day of work, getting out of your bed and cooking for them when they come in at 2:00 am and you even don't know why they was out so late.. lol.. etc.. you know what i am talking about...   
LOVE IS NOTHING BUT YOUR TRUE INNER SELF AND ITS DESIRE TO COME OUT.
ITS BETTER TO LIVE IT UNCONDITIONALLY & WITHOUT ANY PUBLICITY.
by

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Posted: 09/19/07 08:52 PM
love is most certainly about handling both the BITTER & THE SWEET.  love is something that may not necessarily need to be said over and over, but is demonstrated on a regular basis.  love is not lust, and lust is not love.  learn to seek deep within to truly discover the love that awaits you.
2.1
Posted: 09/28/07 05:56 PM
veronica... ya you are right about one thing... YOU HAVE TO TAKE THE BITTER WITH THE SWEET.. YOU CAN'T HAVE ONE WITHOUT THE OTHER ONE... FOR WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU TAKE THE BAD AND THE GOOD OF THEM.. AND WE ALL HAVE A GOOD SIDE AS WELL AS BAD SIDE... BUT OF COURSE YOU HAVE TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST.. One Love.. V
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Posted: 09/28/07 05:54 PM
GOOD QUESTION!!!!!
we all have our own idea's of what we think love is! But it starts within yourself first.. you have to love you and then you will know and learn really how to love someone else...
4
Posted: 01/11/08 02:43 PM
its a intiment feeling for someone
5
Posted: 01/20/08 06:24 PM

As I see it, love is long suffering.  Some people are easy to love and some aren't but you take the bitter with the sweet as stated in a previous comment.  That's where long suffering comes in.  I believe there are different kinds of love, such as the love you have for your Children, your spouse, your girlfriend/boyfriend, your friends, your parents, your siblings and finally God.  In a nutshell Love is caring for someone IN SPITE OF their shortcomings.  You care for a person unconditionally.   When you can still care for a person that doesn't deserve it, THAT'S LOVE.

Rae

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Posted: 01/21/08 10:32 AM

Love Is...

Love is the warm feeling in my heart when I
think of my children, Love is when my
mothers loving memories invades my mind, since she is no longer with me, Love is getting a kiss on the cheek by my
children, when they're mad at me, Love is seeing God in my
children, Love is not being afraid to let a
man opened my heart so wide that I feel
reborn, Love is knowing my heart is my best
asset, Love is my son being so excited when
he comes over to visits that lifts up and spins me around, Love is God hugging me with his rays of the sunlight, Love is
fearless, Love is not being afraid to love
thy neighbor, Love is knowing that
you are loved, Love is telling your
girlfriends that their beautiful and
meaning it, Love is loving yourself, Love
is the feeling of motherhood, Love is
allowing others to love you no matter what
you think about them, Love is forgiving
yourself, Love is knowing God already has,
Love is God

copywritten 2007
By Sandra Faye Brown

6.1
Posted: 04/24/08 07:54 PM
nicely put... this is love for some of us... others have diffrent ways to love or feel they are loved... but for me... i with this...
7
Posted: 02/10/08 11:22 AM
You have that exactly right, no other explanation can make it any clearer as to what love is. But, what happens when you stop caring, do you stop loving?
7.1
Posted: 04/24/08 07:51 PM
charles, when you stop caring dear, it does'nt mean you stop loving that person not at all... you can love someone and not be with them... love is a strong word and have strong feelings to follow.. we seem to concuse what love is, with caring for someone... two difrrent things.. you can care about someone but not love them.... you can love someone and not be with them... in other words.. if you love someone but you don't get alone.. (can't live together) does mean you don't love them you just can't live together.. so on so forth... so in my words... to answer your question... no you don't stop loving you just stopped caring in that way...
7.2
Posted: 07/02/08 04:21 PM
charles, when you stop caring dear, it does'nt mean you stop loving that person not at all... you can love someone and not be with them... love is a strong word and have strong feelings to follow.. we seem to concuse what love is, with caring for someone... two difrrent things.. you can care about someone but not love them.... you can love someone and not be with them... in other words.. if you love someone but you don't get alone.. (can't live together) does mean you don't love them you just can't live together.. so on so forth... so in my words... to answer your question... no you don't stop loving you just stopped caring in that way... 
Ok Vetta I like your blog, but I have a question to you about love, I still love and care about my x after our split over 3 years ago, I don't know if she feels the same, but the one thing I do know is we split because of her love for god. Because of that I don't care to much about god or any of that stuff. My question is Vetta, does one (ie me) have to be forced to love god in a relationship to be able to be with the one person I am deeply in love with?
7.3
Posted: 07/03/08 06:29 PM
Ok Vetta I like your blog, but I have a question to you about love, I still love and care about my x after our split over 3 years ago, I don't know if she feels the same, but the one thing I do know is we split because of her love for god. Because of that I don't care to much about god or any of that stuff. My question is Vetta, does one (ie me) have to be forced to love god in a relationship to be able to be with the one person I am deeply in love with?
 
My Dear F1 Driver, the problem with that situation is.. when you have a person that is religious that individual is living according to what they now best.. meaning.. in other words.. if they are a christian the bible say that you have to be married in order to have a relationship and sex.... so she feel like she is going against gods well and his commandments into which he has gave us to follow... if you are not a christian then you also will be unevenly yoked.. mean different beliefs. That does'nt mean she don't love you it just means she had no choice if you was not married.. she per-fur to live accordingly to GODS WORDS and sacrifice her love for you for her love of god.. believe me she still loves you but she loves god and her soul too... you can't hate GOD for her wanting to follow his will you should not have to be forced to believe in something you don't also. So i am saying... that if she is a christian.. she will lead you to GOD because of the light that is in her... so she should not force it on you let you come on your own...

My best wishes on that situation... and i will be praying for you..


7.4
Posted: 01/14/09 02:11 AM
My Dear F1 Driver, the problem with that situation is.. when you have a person that is religious that individual is living according to what they now best.. meaning.. in other words.. if they are a christian the bible say that you have to be married in order to have a relationship and sex.... so she feel like she is going against gods well and his commandments into which he has gave us to follow... if you are not a christian then you also will be unevenly yoked.. mean different beliefs. That does'nt mean she don't love you it just means she had no choice if you was not married.. she per-fur to live accordingly to GODS WORDS and sacrifice her love for you for her love of god.. believe me she still loves you but she loves god and her soul too... you can't hate GOD for her wanting to follow his will you should not have to be forced to believe in something you don't also. So i am saying... that if she is a christian.. she will lead you to GOD because of the light that is in her... so she should not force it on you let you come on your own...

My best wishes on that situation... and i will be praying for you..


 
The church say you most be married not God he never claimed that He stated a covent between two . Which is a comminment. That didn't mean marrage but a commitment to each other, This is an issue with the church not God. to many people believe the church represent the best interest of God and it does not thechurch looks out for the best interest of the church. I don't know how many times the church has said we should live in fear god. Wake up folks God means pure love and we should live in fear of that like he keepin is but it isn't God. That is just a big stick the church uses to try to keep you under control. God gave you free will for a reason how else are you going to find out who you are and what your purpose is You are going to make mistakes, that life folks. God is not waiting in the wing to punish you for that is not his way, that is the way of the church not of God. If you are married to each other or not is not the issue. The question is do you honour and stay true to each other that what important. If you don't God won't punish the circle of life will do that. God can only help pick up the pieces and piont you in the right direction. That why your here to find your own path the situation you speak to was created by the church not God dont for a minute believe they are the same thing for they have very little in common. God bless
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Posted: 02/10/08 03:06 PM
Well most of us confuse the lust for money,sex,and power as love
9.1
Posted: 04/25/08 02:41 PM
Craig give us your oppion on WHAT IS LOVE..!!!

WHAT DO YOU THINK ON THE MATTER...
10
Posted: 04/09/08 09:39 AM
Love is true n kind
because lovers never use their mind
dreams are which they never find
because love is always blind
10.1
Posted: 04/26/08 12:24 AM

Well I guess you are right in a way and all... love can be blinding if you let it be that way..... you are right about the mind... because we use our hearts.. to love...

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Posted: 04/18/08 03:45 AM
felling is believe at love
will then god is bless
12
Posted: 05/17/08 02:56 PM
i think  love  somebody means the ability to understand the inner part of another prson,if your love is towards a beautiful person you are loving beauty not that person.
12.1
Posted: 05/21/08 12:19 AM

good one... fulloflove.. i must do agree with you good answer...

13
Posted: 06/04/08 09:36 PM

Love to me is nothing but some horse s***..However when it comes to family? It's like a warm ray of light that holds me..

14
Posted: 06/13/08 08:28 PM
love is caring...love is sharing
love is to feel without saying
love is to understand without demand
love is to inspire what your lover breath
love is to be in his heart and mind
love is love

14.1
Posted: 06/13/08 08:51 PM
Amozorazo very well put dear... I love your answer I could not of said it better myself...
14.2
Posted: 06/20/08 11:09 AM
Amozorazo very well put dear... I love your answer I could not of said it better myself...  
Amozorazo very well put dear... I love your answer I could not of said it better myself...
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Posted: 06/29/08 07:40 PM
Love the others more than your self  (That is the love)
I think that

15.1
Posted: 07/03/08 06:34 PM
Love the others more than your self  (That is the love)
I think that

 
Jasem Dear, if everyone followed that rule... we all would be in trouble.. what i am trying to say to you is, i have not found  a religion that will even tell you to love the other one more then you.. for even in marriage.. you are united as one.. love the other one more then you would mean.. you are not loving yourself... you are them and they are you... understand... how can you love dear if you don't love you first... meaning... if you can't love you.. then how are you going to love me...  let me know.. what you think..
16
Posted: 08/09/08 05:17 PM
Love is a feeling which I think differs for every individual.. it's a individual thing
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Posted: 08/15/08 03:03 PM
Love is Love. friendship is friendship, Friend is not lover. Love make rilation, sex, Life, Kids,Etc.  two man is mske one. love is haven.
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Posted: 01/02/09 02:23 AM
One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love.
18.1
Posted: 01/02/09 02:24 AM
One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love. 
Love is Love
18.2
Posted: 06/03/09 01:01 AM
Love is Love
 
<br /><font color="#000000"><font face="times new roman,times" size="3">You are so right dear.. GOD is love.. that is what we all know and if you don't love yourself you can not love anyone else.. we can't love with out loving you first.. thank you for those words into which we all need to hear may god bless you and keep in under his wings...</font></font><br /><br /><br /><br />Suja<br />------<br /><br /><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.ftpshell.com/client/" title="FTP Client">FTP Client</a><br /><br />
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